It’s much easier to align with the oppressor than feel constantly ignored and abused because of the color of your skin. When you align with your oppressor, you’re telling yourself you’re no longer a victim. Who wants to live in a state of constant vigilance – jumping through hoops to make white people comfortable around you? No one does.

The common denominator here is fear. Some BIPOCs are not afraid to admit that there is systemic racism in America. Others prefer to live in a bubble where everyone is treated equally; therefore, you make your own merit. We do not live in a meritocracy and if you’re old enough to read this, I’m sure that you’ve had enough examples to see it for yourself.

So retreat to your cocoon or keep on your blindfold to cast out all the unjust treatments of people of color. No one wants a Judas warrior on their side. Keep your head down, if you must. The rest of us got this!